So, this past month I wanted to learn something new. (Part of my 2023 goal to monotask better.) For some reason, I chose calligraphy. I figured it was something different (I am not a naturally creative or artistic person), it could be done off-line, and I could take my supplies with me when we went on vacation.
I bought some cheap calligraphy markers (figured that was better than jumping in with the high-end pens) and a decent notebook. I watched videos, printed guidelines, and checked out some how-to books from the library. I practiced nearly every day.
What did I learn? That it’s harder than I first thought! And as I wrap up my month of learning this skill, I know that if I worked a lot more, I could probably get half-way decent at it. But even though I won’t, I still consider this month a success. I forced myself to put other things aside every day, and focus on the task at hand.
This wasn’t the first time that I tried to learn something in the arts, reached a plateau, and gave it up. There was:
Taking a group piano class my senior year in college. It was an 8-week class. After about week 3, the professor learned to call on me for the first exercise in our books, and then she ignored me for the rest of the class. That was a favor to all of us.
I wanted (and received) a harmonica for Christmas when I was in grad school. Who knew that was so hard?!?! That attempt lasted about 2 days.
I gave ukulele a good shot, and I reached a good beginner level. But after a couple of years, I realized that while I understand some basic technical skills, I never really got the “feel” for it (unlike my daughter, who quickly surpassed me — which I was glad about!).
But more than just trying to expand my skills (I did go to a liberal arts school, after all), consider my “failure” to excel at these skills a big win. Through my attempts, I gain a much greater appreciation for those who do this well. Now when I witness someone’s creative handiwork, I am able to admire their hard work and skill.